As many of you know, my life took a drastic turn in the past couple of weeks. I managed to fall and break not only my right ankle, but also fractured my left one. So I am stuck in a wheelchair for at least 4 more weeks. To add to that, Steve started getting sick on me and after conferring with his doctor in Houston and our primary care doctor here, I made the decision to take him to the ER. He was admitted late Friday and has been here ever since.

He has pneumonia, which they say was a side effect of his therapy treatment. He has improved considerably since he was admitted but not yet ready to go home. There is a procedure scheduled for today and hopefully after that we will have some sort of game plan to get us home.

So with everything that has been going on I just haven’t had it in me to write, so I decided to share a little.

As you know I love to read, and I picked up a book by a favorite author of mine, however, it wasn’t his normal fictional novel. His name is Charles Martin and this particular book is called It Is Finished - A 40 day pilgrimage back to the Cross. “From 40 moments through the story going back to Calvary, we will go back to the Cross, looking at it from a different angle each day.” Mr. Martin is heavily involved in his church, is a bible study leader and often speaks at his church.

Having finished reading the Bible this year so much was still fresh in my memory, but to have it broken down and looked at from someone else’s perspective opened my eyes even more. Plus he asks questions and gives the reader something to think about.

Now, I’m not saying that you have to go out and buy this book, just that I found it a worthwhile read.

And Steve and I will get through this, the power of prayer is ever present in our lives.

Psalm 121-1-2
I lift up my eyes to the mountains—where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the maker of heaven and earth

Romans 12:13
When God’s people are in need, be ready to help them. Always eager to practice hospitality.

In case you didn’t know, I consider myself a strong person. I’ll try to accomplish any task that comes my way. Over the years, I’ve maintained our home, yard, and worked alongside my husband clearing land and remodeling homes. I’ve always been smart enough to tell him when a task was too much, when to back down, so that I wouldn’t hurt myself or him. That’s something I find challenging because I always want to persevere and complete tasks. However, this situation has truly thrown me for a loop. As someone who’s always organized and ready to help when needed, I’m now having to rely on others to do almost everything for me. I even had to ask our daughter to help me get a shower and wash my hair. This has been an experience I’ll never forget.

I didn’t realize how much control I had until I had to relinquish it. It probably wouldn’t have been so bad if Steve had been completely healthy, but unfortunately, that’s the way it is, and we make the most of a challenging situation. In the Bible, making the most of a difficult situation is often referred to as “failing forward” or “divine reversal.” This belief is based on the idea that God can transform even the most challenging circumstances into something greater.

In Philippians 4:13 Paul wrote “For I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength”. I am using the strength bestowed upon me by God to surrender and accept the help that is generously flowing from everyone who is able and willing to assist us. To express how overwhelmed I am by this outpouring of love is an understatement. Our family, friends, neighbors, and my church family have all been incredibly supportive, providing us with food and assistance whenever needed. I will be eternally grateful for all their efforts.

1 Thessalonians 1:2-3 (NIV)
2) We always thank God for all of you and continually mention you in our prayers.
3) We remember before our God and Father your work produced by faith, your labor prompted by love, and your endurance inspired by hope in our Lord Jesus Christ.

So, I’ll start physical therapy soon to learn how to move around better and eventually walk on my own again, which will allow me to get rid of this wheelchair. Until then, I read, do my Bible studies, and continue writing. I find my words and draw my strength from God, knowing that he has a plan for me.

1 Peter 5:10
In his kindness God called you to share in his eternal Glory by means of Christ Jesus. So after you have suffered a little, he will restore, support and strengthen you and he will place you on a firm foundation. All power to him forever! Amen.

2 Corinthians 12:9-10
9) “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.”
10) For when I am weak, then I am strong.

I never imagined that when our flight was canceled on Saturday night and we were informed that there would be no other flights, I would end up in the back of an ambulance heading to a trauma center instead of a cab returning to our hotel. I’ve heard it said that life can change in an instant, and I can personally attest to that. One moment, I was walking out of the terminal to get transportation, and the next, I was on the ground, clutching my leg in excruciating pain.

Needless to say, I have ample time on my hands to contemplate and reflect on the current state of my life. As is common with many individuals, the primary thought that crossed my mind that night was, “Why God?” I questioned whether I had done or neglected something that necessitated this challenge in my life at this particular moment. My husband, Steve, interpreted it as a sign that I needed to slow down. He believed that I had been overextending myself in taking care of him and our daily lives and that I required a break. Well, here I am, taking a break.

While lying in that hospital bed, the one thing I did was pray. Every day, multiple times a day. I prayed for my surgeon and his team to successfully reconstruct my leg. I prayed for the nursing staff who were working 12-hour shifts and were extremely busy taking care of all their patients. I prayed for Steve, that he would be able to cope with me being bedridden until help arrived to take care of him. And I prayed for the young woman who shared my room. From what I could hear from behind the curtain, she had struggled with addiction in her life, experienced some abuse, and faced mental challenges. During a manic episode, I managed to calm her down by reading one of my devotions to her. When I reached the actual scripture passage, she recited it with me, word for word. It gave me some peace to know that she had God in her life. When I told her I was going to listen to my church service on my phone, she said she would listen to hers as well. And she did, for maybe one song. Our nurses thanked me for my help and left us to try and get some sleep once again. As I lay there listening to Pastor Twyla, I was reminded that even in my annoyance and lack of sleep from this young woman’s outburst, God reminded me to reach out and try to ease her burden by sharing my words with her. I could have easily rolled over, put my earbuds in, and blocked out her ranting and raving. But I couldn’t actually do that; I couldn’t roll over. I was pulled to try and help her. She had had no visitors, but from her talking, I knew she had adult children and some friends. Yet, when she fell and broke her shoulder, she had no one. I imagine that her life choices more than likely had a role in why she was alone, but it wasn’t my place to judge her or her family. But it did tug at my heartstrings that she had no one there for her.

Luke 6:37-38
37) Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven.
38) Give, and you will receive. Your gift will return to you in full —pressed down, shaken together to make room for more, running over, and poured into your lap. The amount you give will determine the amount you get back.”

Genesis 8:22
As long as the earth remains there will be planting and harvest, cold and heat, summer and winter, day and night.

Here we are once again, my favorite time of the year—Spring. It’s the awakening of the earth after a cold winter. I can’t even say it was a long, hard winter because I think it was fairly short and mild overall. Unfortunately though it was also very dry. This will undoubtedly have an impact on this new season of growth and the harvests that follow.

My favorite thing to see as spring approaches is the green shoots popping up from the ground, alerting me that soon flowers will follow. But as we all know, in order for that flower to emerge, a seed has to be planted first. Not only do those seeds provide us with the beauty of flowers, but there are also seeds that provide us with food. As with flower gardens, vegetable gardens require a lot of work: from planting, watering, weeding, and harvesting. It’s also a constant battle of fighting bugs, aphids, cutworms, and wildlife. Deer, raccoons, squirrels, and groundhogs can destroy all your hard work in a short time, sometimes overnight. In your frustration, you are probably questioning God about why he let this happen, but guess what, he didn’t; you just didn’t utilize the tools readily available to you to prevent it from happening.

Now, let’s shift gears and delve into the garden of life—the place where seeds are planted and nurtured. The biblical concept of seed encompasses creation, the act of bringing the entire universe, including the earth and all of life, into existence from nothingness. Covenant, a sacred binding agreement between God and humanity, that signifies a deep connection and commitment. Prophecy, which involves delivering divine messages, warnings, and revelations through a prophet. Spiritual growth, the process of becoming more Christ-like in our actions, deepening our faith and knowledge of God, practicing obedience, and following the fruits of the Spirit (as mentioned in Galatians 5:22-23, which include love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control) which metaphorically are seeds themselves as we can plant them wherever we go. All of this is a journey of self-discovery and transformation. And lastly, there is legacy; a representation of your spiritual, moral, and faith-based inheritance passed down from one generation to the next. This seed serves as a powerful symbol of life, promise, and the unfolding of God’s redemption plan throughout history. By living a life that reflects Christ through our actions and character, we leave a positive and lasting impact, much like planting a seed that grows into a beautiful garden.

Hosea 10:12
“Plant the seeds of righteousness, and you will harvest a crop of love. Plow up the hard ground of your hearts, for now is the time to seek the Lord, that he may come and shower righteousness upon you.”

2 Corinthians 9:6
Remember this - a farmer who plants only a few seeds will get a small crop. 

Psalm 112:7
They do not fear bad news; they confidently trust the Lord to care for them.

Life is unpredictable, constantly changing every minute, every hour, and every day. While change can be positive, it can also be frightening, especially when fear lurks in the shadows, ready to reveal its ugly side. In such moments, we must lean on our faith and trust in God, stepping forward with the assurance that He will protect us from our fears.

What are your fears? Growing up, I was terrified of snakes. It didn’t matter what kind, color, or size they were. I would actually hyperventilate if I saw one near me. Yet, I was never bitten, and I never had a valid reason to be so frightened of them. I just was. As I would stand there gasping for air, I silently repeated, “God, please don’t let it bite me.” Those seven words were a plea to God, a prayer that we would protect me; and he did. The one time a snake actually coiled up and prepared to strike me, God picked me up and moved me to safety. My husband and I had just carried two 8’ sheets of Sheetrock outside and my arms were burning from the exertion. As I was shaking them out I happened to look over my shoulder and there was a snake, coiled and ready to strike. I physically jumped over six feet in one leap, and I have no idea how I did it because my little short legs could never jump that far in normal circumstances. My husband just looked at me in awe and asked how I did that as he was looking over my shoulder and saw what caused me to react that way. After checking to make sure I was actually okay, he then took care of the snake, which was still coiled up and posing a threat in our breezeway. Amazingly, after that incident, I was no longer terrified of snakes. Yes, they still startle me, but as long as they are not venomous, I let them be.

As a child, I had another fear: monsters. I’m referring to the classic ones, the ones lurking under the bed or hiding in your closet. Needless to say, my closet door was rarely closed, just to be cautious. Fortunately, like most children, I eventually outgrew that fear.

Psalm 27:1
The Lord is my light and my salvation so why should I be afraid? The Lord is my fortress protecting me from danger, so why should I tremble?

There are things to fear everywhere we look—spiders, heights, dark places, scary movies, and yes, even people. We were all taught about “stranger danger” when we were growing up.

If you have a car accident are you afraid to drive? You fail a test are you afraid to finish that class? Often times we are afraid to go to the doctor because we know we are going to get a lecture about our weight, our diet, our blood pressure, A1C; the lists are endless. But the one thing that these have in common is that God is there with you every step of the way. And I’m sure you’re questioning that if God was with me then how did I get overweight, why is my blood pressure high, etc. Well, that is on us. God has given us the tools we need to live this life, we just need to follow instructions and do it properly.

Last week we heard Glory & Praise sing about fear being a liar, it can have you believing the worst in the things we face day to day. But don’t let it get it’s hold on you. As long as you have faith, that God is by your side, we can overcome those fears and any others that come our way.

Joshua 1:9
This is my command-be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go

In Hebrews 12:1-2 it states…And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith.

The full verse talks about striping off every weight that slows us down, specifically sin, as is easily trips us up. And we do this by keeping our eyes not on a gold medal but on Jesus.

Along with millions of others, I’ve been watching the Olympics for the past couple of weeks, not diligently, but enough to have a few favorites. It’s exciting to get caught up in the anticipation of their performances and the outcome. I’ve witnessed many competitors bowing their heads, raising their eyes to the heavens, and even kneeling on the ground, praying that they don’t fall, don’t falter, and achieve high scores. I’m sure they’re also praying that they make it to the podium to represent their country and receive a medal.

I watched one of our American skiers come out of retirement despite previous injuries and age to pursue the glory of winning one more time. However, at what cost? When do you say enough is enough? You don’t. Just as in our race in life, our race to be better Christians, and our race to the eternal prize, we keep going, giving it our all.

Paul tells us in 1 Corinthians 9:24-27
24) Don’t you realize that in a race everyone runs, but only one person gets the prize? So run to win!
25) All athletes are disciplined in their training. They do it to win a prize that will fade away, but we do it for an eternal prize.
26) So I run with a purpose in every step. I am not just shadow boxing.
27) I discipline my body like an athlete, training it to do what it should. Otherwise, I fear that after preaching to others I myself might be disqualified.

This, of course, is a metaphor; a comparison between an athlete and a believer (a Christian). Paul used it to encourage us to live with intense discipline and purpose in our faith. He believed that through training and consistency, we could achieve the imperishable spiritual reward. In verse 27, he expresses his fear of being disqualified, which serves as a warning against neglecting spiritual disciplines. This is not necessarily a loss of salvation, but rather a loss of reward and effectiveness in ministry. Paul is demanding personal discipline, urging us to live intentionally and rigorously in our faith. By doing so, we can stay focused on our ultimate goal: to live in a restored, eternal, and loving relationship with God. This will lead to lasting joy, personal growth, and spiritual growth. We need to embrace life and fully experience its joys and sorrows. When the race is over, we will know that we have won the greatest reward.

2 Timothy 4:7-8
7) I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, and I have remained faithful.
8) And now the prize awaits me - the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will give me on the day of his return. And the prize is not just for me but for all who eagerly look forward to his reappearing.

John 3:16
For God so loved the world, that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish, but have eternal life.

I believe that sacrificing your child for the sake of others is an act of immense love, the grandest of all time. However, this is not the way God expects us to express our love. The most profound way to demonstrate love is to love God wholeheartedly, with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength. Once you love God, you naturally love your neighbor as you would love yourself, treating them with the same respect, fairness, and kindness that you desire for yourself. This involves prioritizing others’ needs in a spirit of generosity, actively listening, understanding, and refraining from gossip and malice.

God isn’t referring to our neighbors or those across the street, although we should love them too. Even if their dog barks incessantly or their music is too loud, we should still love them. Jesus teaches us that a neighbor is anyone in need of help, regardless of their background, ethnicity, or religion. The Bible calls us to love and serve everyone we encounter who needs our help, making the definition of “neighbor” as broad as humanity itself.

What is love? And how do we utilize it for the better good.

1Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand it’s own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.

Patience and kindness are fundamental virtues in the Bible, as mentioned in Galatians 5:22-23. These virtues are considered essential for spiritual growth and mortality. By cultivating patience and kindness, we can express love.

On the other hand, jealousy, boastfulness, and envy are portrayed as unspiritual and evil.

Love is a positive response to life’s events.

Love is unwavering and persistent, unlike human beings who are prone to failure love never fails. I recall hearing the phrase “to straighten up and fly right” when I was growing up. It was a call to action, a reminder to behave properly, act responsibly, and stop acting foolish. It was a time to get my act together. I imagine that I’m not the only one who has heard those words, and there’s probably someone in your life whom you’ve expressed those words to as well. The one constant during those times was the unwavering love that came from those words. That love never wavered, no matter how many times I messed up. I knew I was loved.

Even though I sometimes felt like I had let others down, God’s faith in me never wavered. He knew that I would eventually get it right. His mercy spared me, forgave my mistakes, and gave me a chance at a fresh start. Yes, God offers do-overs because He loves us.

In Ephesians 3:18 Paul states that, may you have the power to understand as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is. Love is everywhere, we just have to open our eyes to see it and our minds and our hearts to share it. And because love is so vast, and is spoken of so often in the Bible, I had a hard time choosing a closing scripture. I flipped a lot of pages and researched a lot of passages trying to find just the right verse and then I decided since I started with John, that I would close with John.

John 14:34
“So now I am giving you a new commandment. Love each other. Just as I have love you, you should love each other.

2 Corinthians 12:8-10
Paul wrote in 2 Corinthians, 8) Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. 9) Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weakness, so that the power of Christ can work through me. 10) That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecution’s and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

And that, my friend, is resilience—facing life’s adversities and growing stronger through them. It’s about leaning on God, acknowledging your limitations, and taking small, faithful steps forward. When life knocks you down, remember that God has given you the strength to get back up again.

Our pastor chose the word “resilience” for our word for the year, only she referenced
James 1:12
God blesses those who patiently endure testing and temptations. Afterward they will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him. Patiently enduring the testing and temptations, staying strong even when I am weak.

These verses are from two different books in the bible; one written by an Apostle, one written by a brother of Jesus, but the message is the same. We are strong even when we are weak.

There are 7 C’s in resilience. And you just gave me that look that says, um, no there is only 1. So let me explain, resilience is competence, confidence, connection, character, contribution, coping and control. All attributes that when we put them all together make us stronger.

1 Thessalonians imparts resilience through God’s empowering love, emphasizing the significance of listening and encouraging one another during hardships, and refraining from buckling under their weight. It also advocates for practicing gratitude in all circumstances, demonstrating that believers are destined for trials and that we are equipped to remain steadfast and resilient. By standing firm in our faith, we maintain alertness and unwavering strength. If you study this for a bit you will see the connection of those 7 C’s, they are there in those words.

As I write this, I reflect on the people I know and realize that none of them have escaped the trials of life. Whether it’s a motorcycle or car accident, the loss of a family member or child, medical issues, job loss, divorce, the end of a friendship, or the passing of a beloved pet, we all encounter hardships. Yet, despite these challenges, we all share a common trait: resilience. We’ve endured life’s tests and emerged victorious, proving our resilience. But why? Because God has bestowed upon us the grace to overcome these obstacles.

2 Corinthians 4:8-10
8) We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair.
9) We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed.
10). Through suffering, our bodies continue to share in the death of Jesus so that the life of Jesus may also be seen in our bodies.

We are strong even when we are weak.

Matthew 7:22-23
22) Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?
23) Then I will tell them plainly, “I never knew you. Away from me you evildoers!” (NIV)

I came across a different translation of this passage (The Passion Translation) in a book I’m currently reading. It put it into words that are more relevant to today’s times. It simply stated, “Go away from me, you lawless rebels!” The New King James Version translates it as “You who practice lawlessness.”

These words were written centuries ago, in a different lifetime, a different conflict, but yet still rings true today. We are still fighting one another, standing up for our beliefs in what is right and what is wrong. But who determines what is right or wrong? If it weren’t for the news and social media we wouldn’t even know about this latest conflict. It more than likely would have gone off as a small protest and been over within a few days. But, it was broadcast and it grew and grew and went from a peaceful protest to a violent one. And now we wonder, when does this end and how does it end?

The new bible study I started recently took me back to the beginning, to Genesis; do you remember what happens in Genesis Chapter 8, Verse 5?
The Lord observed the extent of human wickedness on the earth and he saw that everything they thought or imagined was consistently and totally evil. So the Lord was sorry that he had ever made them and put them on the earth. It broke his heart.

And as the story continues we know that God essentially wanted a do over, a clean slate. He started over with Noah and two of everything. And he washed it all away with 40 days of rain and a great flood. Our country today could use a good cleansing, but I don’t think it’s going to happen like it did back in biblical times. I honestly don’t know where we are heading, but I will be praying that it is in the right direction and that we will find peace in our towns, our schools and our lives.

Luke 19:42-43
42) “How I wish today that you of all people would understand the way to peace. But now it is too late, and peace is hidden from your eyes.
43) Before long your enemies will build ramparts against your walls and encircle you and close in on you from every side.”

Somewhere along the way we have gotten lost, we have forgotten what is right and what is wrong. We have forgotten that we are supposed to be one nation under God, indivisible. But we are divided and not just in half, we have become divided into so many pieces we look like a broken vase needing to be glued back together. Somehow we need to repair what is broken. But how do we do that?

Jesus taught us that out of darkness comes light, and guess what? We are that light. In Matthew 5:14, Jesus said, “You are the light of the world.” He continued in verse 16, “Let your good deeds shine before all men, so that they may praise your heavenly Father.” It’s time to let that light shine.

I’ve often spoken about how God has planned our paths long before we were born. He always knows what will happen before we do, and He won’t let protests and fighting destroy what He has created. God has given us a Savior in Jesus Christ, who was sent to save humanity from sin.

It’s time to come together as believers in Christ, it’s time to pray. To pray for our nation and our leaders, our brothers and sisters. It’s time to invite others to pray with you, to invite them to join you in church so that they can hear the worship group sing praises to God, so that they can hear Pastor’s message in her sermon and maybe when they leave they will share that message with others. The Bible tells us that if we humble ourselves and pray, then he will heal the land. It’s time to be humble.

Psalm 107:19
“Lord, help!” They cried in their trouble, and he saved them from their distress.

1 Samuel 16:7
But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not judge by his appearance or height, for I have rejected him. The Lord doesn’t see things the way you see them. People judge by outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.

With the increasing time we spend in airports lately, we’ve had numerous opportunities to observe people. It’s a way to pass the time while waiting for our flights. Have you ever considered the people you encounter when you’re out and about? Take, for example, the man carrying his suit jacket, tie off, cuffs rolled up on a slightly wrinkled shirt. His meeting must have ended poorly, judging by the expression on his face. However, after a long week, he’s on his way home to his family.

Now, let’s consider the woman in leggings and a sweatshirt hurrying to her gate. She’s likely rushing to catch her flight because she needs to get to her mother, who has fallen and broken her hip.

These are just a few examples of the many stories and scenarios that unfold based on our outward appearances. But perhaps the business man is actually a doctor who has dedicated his time to assisting a colleague with a challenging case. And the woman might be returning home to her family after a weekend away, seeking clarity on her life. Ultimately, she realizes that home is where her heart truly belongs.

Do you judge people solely based on their physical appearance? Steve occasionally does this, and I gently remind him of it. However, it’s worth noting that this behavior has only recently become a habit, suggesting it might be an age-related issue. For instance, when he comments on the younger generation’s piercings and hair colors, I try to be understanding and accept that they are simply expressing themselves. Nevertheless, I can’t help but wonder if they are suppressing their pain or anger through these piercings, or if they are hiding behind this facade. Ultimately, we cannot judge them based on their appearance without knowing their inner thoughts and emotions.

John 7:24
Look beneath the surface so you can judge correctly.

Before we judge others based on their appearance, perhaps we should take a moment to look inward and reflect on our own lives. What do we see? I see a tired older woman in leggings and a sweatshirt, burdened by the weight of recent challenges. However, with God leading the way, she has persevered through these difficult days. I see a woman of God, radiating love and compassion for those around her. I see a fighter, a warrior ready to face the obstacles that lie ahead. But sometimes, I catch a glimpse of that unsure, timid soul, yearning for words of encouragement to remind her that she is not alone on her journey.

Psalm 7:10
God is my shield, saving those whose heart are true and right.

Just because the book’s cover doesn’t seem appealing doesn’t mean the story itself isn’t a page-turner. Even if someone’s appearance doesn’t seem like someone you’d want to associate with, you might be surprised to find out they’re the most interesting person you’ve talked to in a long time. And maybe they needed that interaction with you just as much as you needed to have a conversation with them. That outward appearance was covering a heart that needed a simple smile, a kind word or perhaps someone to listen to their story.

Thessalonians 5:11
Therefore encourage each other and build each other up; just as you are already doing.

January, the longest and usually the coldest and darkest month of the year, marks the end of winter as the days gradually lengthen. We’re weary of the cold, runny noses, and lingering coughs. Looking out the window at the brown grass and bare trees, I can’t help but feel deflated and depressed.

Depression can strike unexpectedly and wreak havoc on a person’s mental well-being. I’ve personally battled depression and resorted to prescription medication to manage it. However, one day, I made a profound decision: “No more.” I refused to live my life solely dependent on medication to get through each day. Determined to reclaim my life, I embarked on a journey of self-discovery and gradually tapered off the pills.

While I acknowledge that this path may not be suitable for everyone, I want to emphasize that not all depressions are created equal. My own depression was triggered by my cancer diagnosis and subsequent chemotherapy treatments. It’s a constant battle to stay on the right track, and I’m acutely aware of the potential for relapse if I let my guard down.

So, how do we combat the winter blues? I would usually recommend reading a book, but even I, the Queen of reading, must occasionally put it down and engage in different activities. I crave connection with my friends, whom I don’t see often enough during the winter months, who are also grappling with the winter blues. To combat this, I put on my favorite music, crank up the volume, and start cleaning and cooking. I then organize a get-together with these friends. As we gather around the table, savoring a delicious meal and sharing laughs, we momentarily forget about the cold, dreary days. We might reminisce about our past travel adventures or plan our next one. For a brief moment, we can escape the cold temperatures and grey days of winter.

Psalm 139:11-12
11) I could ask the darkness to hide me and light around me to become night
12) but even in darkness I cannot hide from you. To you the night shines as bright as day. Darkness and light are the same to you.

One of my favorite songs is an oldie from 1971, written and recorded by John Denver. It’s called “Sunshine on My Shoulder.” Interestingly, he wrote this song during the dead of winter when he was feeling down and blue. So, when I pick up my Kindle and drink cup to leave the room, Steve asks me where I’m going. I tell him, “To sunshine, it makes me happy.” On those winter days when the sun finally peeks out, even for just an hour, you’ll find me in the sunroom, basking in the sunshine and feeling happy.

Always remember that even in the darkness, whether it’s winter’s darkness or the darkness of depression you are never alone.

Deuteronomy 31:8
The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; he will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid, do not be discouraged.

Isaiah 41:10
Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be discouraged, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you. I will hold you up with my victorious right hand.

A new year, a new beginning, a chance to be better, do better, maybe make amends for things we didn’t settle this past year. Everything that lays ahead of us in the new year will be a challenge of some sort. Simply getting through one day can be a challenge for some of us.

In Joshua 1:6 God told Joshua to be strong and courageous. Like Joshua, we need to look at even the biggest challenges through the lens of God’s power. God will always give us what we need to accomplish what he desires. You will note that it says, “what he desires”, telling us that God always knows what is best for us. It might not be what we always want, but it will be what is best. By Gods grace, we can be strong and courageous as we face each new challenge.

We’ve all encountered challenges throughout our lives, ranging from minor setbacks to life-altering events. From relationships to illnesses, accidents to recovery, from patient to caregiver, and from job changes to retirement, every aspect of life presents its own set of challenges. What unites these challenges is our reliance on God for guidance and support during these difficult times.

I don’t know about you, but I begin my day with a conversation with God, expressing gratitude for the blessings of the new day. Since I may encounter various challenges throughout the day, I might have more than one conversation with God. Sometimes, the weight of a challenge can be overwhelming, and I need additional assistance to get through the day. You know those times when you say, “Hey God, are you listening? I could use a little extra help here.”

Matthew 7:7-8
7) Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking and the door will be opened for you.
8) For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And to everyone who knocks, the door will be opened.

Because God is sovereign (supreme), you have complete assurance that He will orchestrate every aspect of your life for your good, regardless of the circumstances. It may be painful, confusing, or seem impossible, but the Lord can and will utilize that situation to fulfill His divine purpose for you.

As God is omniscient, meaning he knows everything, he can answer your most challenging questions. He is also omnipotent, possessing unlimited power, which enables him to overcome your greatest obstacles. Lastly, God is omnipresent, meaning he is everywhere. He will always be with you, even in your darkest days, or your most challenging times he will always be there. Even when we think he isn’t.

Ephesians 3:20
Now all glory to God, who is able, through his mighty power at work within us, to accomplish infinitely more than we might ask or think.

Our challenges seem insignificant when we remember that we are not alone in confronting them. Embrace the day, seize the moment, for we have no idea what tomorrow holds

Colossians 3:13-14
13) Make allowances for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others.
Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which fosters a perfect harmony among us.

Well, we’ve reached the end of another year. I’m certain some of us may have felt like we wouldn’t make it to the end, but as they say, “God wasn’t finished with you yet.” So, we persevere.

Now, let’s reflect on what we’ve accomplished and what slipped through the cracks. What didn’t we accomplish? What areas do we need to improve and excel in? If we were to reflect on our lives at midnight on December 31st, would we be content with how we’ve left things? Or would we have made different choices? Remember, it’s never too late. We still have a few days left, and we have the entire next year to make the necessary changes and avoid self-doubt at the end of next year. Just remember, you’re not alone on this journey.

Psalms 32:8
The Lord says, “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you.

Are you one of those who make New Year’s resolutions? The most common ones are: I’m going on a diet, I’m going to lose weight, and I’m going to start exercising and get into better shape. We’ve all joined the gym and gone religiously at first or bought the new exercise equipment only to find it buried under a stack of clothes six months later. Why do we give up on ourselves so easily? Do we stop going to church on Sundays just because we don’t feel like getting out of bed and getting dressed to go? I’m really glad that God doesn’t give up on us as easily as we do ourselves.

Psalm 119:7-8
7) As I learn your righteous regulations, I will thank you by living as I should!
8) I will obey your decrees. Please don’t give up on me!

As we bid farewell to 2025, let us say goodbye to our self-doubts, poor decisions, those who bring us down, and bad habits. Let us welcome 2026 with positive thoughts, nurturing relationships, sound decisions, and above all, faith in ourselves that we can achieve our goals. And whenever we feel like we are failing or need a little help to get through the day, remember to seek guidance from God. A simple prayer offered up can lead you back on the path you were meant to take.

Matthew 2:9-11
9) And the star they had seen in the East guided them to Bethlehem. It went ahead of them and stopped over the place where the child was.
10) When they saw the star, they were filled with joy!
11) They entered the house and saw a child with his Mother, Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasure chests and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh.

Notice that this states that they arrived at a house, not a manger. For the wise men we have always associated with the manger scene didn’t actually come to see the newborn child until he was almost 2 years old.

Now, I know that bringing such gifts to a child seems rather bazaar, one would think that warm blankets or clothing would be better suited. But as we know this wasn’t just any child, this was The Savior, The Messiah, the child was Jesus Christ, our Lord and King. These traditional gifts that were usually given to royalty were chosen to acknowledge Jesus’s destiny as King of Kings who was both desired and destined to suffer for humanity.

In biblical time gold was a precious metal and incredibly valuable due to its rarity, beauty and resistance to tarnish. Frankincense and myrrh were rare and costly, often more valuable than gold due to their exotic origins and ceremonial/medicinal uses, making the Magi’s gifts exceptionally significant and likely funding Jesus’s family flight to Egypt. At the time it is estimated that frankincense would have cost around $500 a pound and myrrh would have cost around $4000 per pound. In today’s world that frankincense would cost around $20 a pound and the myrrh would be $40 a pound, however, most likely would be sold as essential oils and sold by the ounce and a bit cheaper. And the gold, well that is still a precious metal and carries a high price tag, as of this writing $4313 per ounce.

The gift of gold acknowledges Jesus as the King of Kings for it is a symbol of royalty and kingship.

Frankincense and myrrh are both gum resins that are expelled from trees in South Arabia and Ethiopia. Frankincense is a key ingredient in temple incenses used in religious ceremonies and was highly valued, symbolizing divinity and high priesthood. Myrrh, on the other hand, could be used as a component of anointing oil. It symbolizes sacrifice and suffering but also holiness and royalty. The myrrh presented by the Magi signified his eventual death. Jesus was offered myrrh when he was on the cross because it had medicinal properties. It was mixed with wine to help him bear his pain. Remember, the Magi, the wise men, were sent by King Herod to seek the newborn Messiah.

Matthew 2:13
After the wise men were gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream. “Get up! Flee to Egypt with the child and his mother,” the angel said. “Stay there until I tell you to return, because Herod is going to search for the child to kill him.”

Though they brought the richest of gifts the Magi themselves were not kings but more than likely learned men, possibly astrologers, or royal counselors whose visit was fulfilling prophecies such as those by the prophet Jeremiah, about a Messiah who would be honored by Gentiles from afar.

The story we have all heard of Jesus’s birth; a star in the East, being born in a manger surrounded by shepherds and their sheep, of a little drummer boy and three kings bringing gifts is just that a story. One that was so much easier to read to a child than what was actually written in the Bible. But in the end it is still about the miraculous birth of our Savior, born to us on this blessed day.

Luke 2:13-14
And suddenly there was with the angel a multitude of heavenly host praising God, and saying,
14) Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace, good will toward men.

John 13:34
So now I am giving you a new commandment: Love each other. Just as I have loved you, you should love each other.

Back in October, when I discussed the treasures of the heart, I mentioned the Fruits of the Spirit. These are listed in Galatians 5:22-23 as love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. These are the qualities that come from the work of the Holy Spirit.

In the past few weeks, I’ve covered all of them except for love, kindness, and goodness. I believe these are essential for our daily lives because without them, we become a cold and uncaring society. If we can’t express these three qualities to those around us, how can we expect to receive them in return?

The Bible emphasizes that love is a fundamental principle that forms the basis of our lives. It aligns with two great commandments: to love God with all our heart, soul, and mind, and to love our neighbors as ourselves. The Bible describes love as patient, kind, and selfless, qualities that are similar to those of God himself.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7
4) Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud
5) or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.
6) It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
7) Love never gives up, never loses faith, and is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. It never ends.

With love as the foundation principle, kindness is a core principle. It involves compassionate actions of forgiveness and love, which we can extend to others, even those who may not deserve it. God doesn’t just want us to exchange quick greetings and move on. He expects us to take action as well. He wants us to treat others as we would want to be treated. This is where goodness comes in, it is when the Holy Spirit works within us to use our selfless actions for the good of others.

Now, I understand what you might be thinking. If I say, “Hello, how are you?” or “Hello, how’s your day going?” I might hear more than I want to or have time to hear. But have you ever stopped to consider that maybe that person needs to share their feelings or tell you about their day? Maybe they live alone and have no one else to talk to. Maybe you’re the first person to ask them how they’re doing on that day. What if the situation were reversed, and they asked you how you were doing? Remember what He said: treat others as we would want to be treated.

In Luke 10:30-37 Jesus tells a story.
30) “A Jewish man was traveling from Jerusalem down to Jericho, and he was attacked by bandits. They stripped him of his clothes, beat him up, and left him half dead beside the road.
31) By chance a priest came along. But when he saw the man lying there, he crossed to the other side of the road and passed him by. 32) A Temple assistant walked over and looked at him lying there, but he also passed by on the other side. 33) Then a despised Samaritan came along, and when he saw the man, he felt compassion for him. 34) Going over to him, the Samaritan soothed his wounds with olive oil and wine and bandaged them. Then he put the man on his donkey and took him to an inn, where he took care of him. 35) The next day he handed the innkeeper two silver coins, telling him, “Take care of this man. If his bill runs higher than this, I’ll pay you the next time I’m here.” 36) Now which of these three would you say was a neighbor to the man who was attacked by bandits?” Jesus asked. 37) The man replied, “The one who showed him mercy.” Then Jesus said, “Yes, now go and do the same.”

For many years I kept a print that hung on my wall that said, “Each day is a gift, untie the ribbons.” It faded over time and was difficult to read so I took it down, but that message is still clear in my mind. As we move into this joyous holiday season try to remember that not all gifts are wrapped up in paper and tied with pretty ribbons. For the best gifts are those that come from the heart. The greeting that goes beyond “hello”. The act that shows kindness and spoken words of love and gentleness are what the Holy Spirit has bestowed upon us to give to one another. Each day is truly a gift, use it wisely and it will bring you abundant joy as long as you keep love in your heart and your faith in God.

Proverbs 21:23
Watch your tongue and keep your mouth shut, and you will stay out of trouble.

I’m thinking I should write this on a Post-it notes and strategically place them around the house, such as on the refrigerator, bathroom mirror, or beside my chair. This could potentially alleviate a significant amount of grief and anguish at times. However, I recognize the importance of self-control in addressing this issue. Self-control involves mastering our desires, impulses, and emotions. It’s one of the Fruits of the Spirit, as mentioned in Galatians 5:22-23. Self-control requires restraining our desires, making wise choices, and living with self-restraint and moderation. This power originates from God, but it demands our active effort through self-discipline and spiritual guidance from God.

Proverbs 25-28
A person without self-control is like a city with broken down walls.

Have you ever encountered someone who seems to have nothing better to do than complain? They might be venting about poor customer service, expressing road rage, or simply trying to stir up trouble because they feel like they need to unload their frustrations on someone. A person lacking self-control is wreckless and impulsive and you never know what to expect from their outburst. Usually there is an underlying issue that has brought about this outrage, whether it’s stress, fatigue, substance abuse or maybe even a mental disability. Try to remember not to be quick to judge, as we don’t know what’s going on in their lives.

2 Timothy 1:7
For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love and self-discipline.

For some people, their initial reaction to someone like this is to retaliate, but it’s best to avoid adding fuel to the fire and worsening the situation. Others may feel afraid and cower down. However, the more mature person chooses to walk away and disengage. Often, when the person throwing the tantrum realizes they aren’t getting a reaction to their outburst, they will back down. However, there can be instances where this doesn’t happen, and things can escalate to a state of complete chaos. Always remember who has your back, and pray for that person who is having a bad day, as they too need His guidance.

1 Peter 3:8-12
8) Finally all of you should be of one mind. Sympathize with one another. Love each other as brothers and sisters. Be tender hearted, and keep a humble attitude.
9) Don’t repay evil for evil. Don’t retaliate with insults when people insult you. Instead pay them back with a blessing. That is what God has called you to do, and he will grant you his blessings.
10) For scriptures say, “If you want to enjoy life and see many happy days, keep your tongue from speaking evil and your lips from telling lies.
11) Turn away from evil and do good. Search for peace and work to maintain it.
12) The eyes of the Lord watch over those who do right and his ears are open to their prayers. But the Lord turn his face against those who do evil.”

Always remember to think before you speak.

Philippians 4:6
Don’t worry about anything, instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.

We are approaching a very stressful time of year for many people, the holidays. To add to our stress, the government decided to take a few weeks of, but thankfully, I believe that situation is finally resolved, at least for now. We all experience stress at some point in our lives. I fret about holiday-related issues, but when I reflect on what truly stresses me, it seems insignificant compared to the worries of those who are concerned about whether they’ll get paid, have enough money for groceries and bills, or even have a place to live.

So what do you do? How do you cope with all this stress?

Psalm 121:1-2
1) I look up to the mountains - does my help come from there?
2) My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth.

Ephesians 4:2
Always be humble and gentle. Be patient with each other, making allowance for each others faults because of your love.

Jesus is the ultimate role model of gentleness, he was humble and caring with people yet he would opt to suffer willingly rather than to retaliate against anger and fury.

Being gentle demands a significant amount of self-control. It involves patience, concentration, and maintaining inner peace. While some individuals possess this trait naturally, others have to work hard to achieve it. It’s important to note that being gentle doesn’t equate to weakness; a strong person can be gentle even if their outward appearance suggests otherwise.

Have you ever witnessed a child having a temper tantrum? Our first instinct is often to react and yell at them to stop, testing our self-control. Instead, take a deep breath and remain calm. Approach the child with a soothing gentleness that will eventually calm them. This same act of gentleness works on animals as well. Do you yell at your horse when it’s acting up or your dog when it’s not minding? I’ve witnessed many people take the wrong approach to both children and animals. I grew up in a generation where “spare the rod, spoil the child” was commonly practiced, but there was no gentleness to that theory. Teachers actually had wooden paddles with holes drilled in them (which were supposed to make the swat sting even more). I never got a paddling, so I can’t verify if that were true. This bring me back to the opening verse: to always be humble and gentle, and to be patient with one another. How you express yourself says a lot about the person you truly are.

In the 23rd Psalm it states that the Lord is my Shepherd. In Isaiah 40:11 it says, “He will feed his flock like a shepherd. He will carry the lamb in his arms holding them close to his heart. He will gently lead the mother sheep with their young.”

We are his flock of sheep, and the children are the lambs. He leads us to lush green pastures, provides us with water, and gently guides us on our paths. My cup overflows with joy, and my heart is filled with gratitude, because with His gentleness I am safe, protected and loved.

One of my most favorite memories from my days attending vacation Bible school with a friend is a picture I saw of Jesus sitting in a garden, surrounded by children. He had a warm smile on his face and eyes that radiated love and gentleness. It was a beautiful image of a Father expressing his love and care for his children.

Philippians 4:5
Let your gentleness be evident to all. The Lord is near.

PSALM 130:5
I am counting on the Lord; yes, I am counting on him. I have put hope in his word.

Well, it’s been a challenging few months. In July, we discovered that my husband, Steve, had a malignant melanoma. He was referred to a local oncologist, and as anyone who has dealt with the medical world knows, these appointments don’t happen overnight. In the meantime, he underwent a pet scan and a brain MRI, both of which showed no signs of cancer elsewhere. However, the local oncologist, wasn’t specialized in melanoma so he referred him to KU, where he was seen by two different doctors. We then decided to get another opinion so we went to MD Anderson in Houston, where he has been undergoing treatment to shrink the tumor. After two treatments, it’s no longer visible. I’m praying today that after his new scans are read, they won’t do a treatment this time as his kidneys aren’t liking this drug. Surgery is scheduled for next month to ensure that all evidence of the tumor is gone and the lymph nodes are clear.

2 Corinthians 5:7
For we walk by faith, not by sight.

We have to trust the unseen, even when decisions are difficult and unseen. Put your faith in God that he will do what he feels best and remain calm.

I believe that one of the most challenging aspects of this situation is maintaining composure. I can’t even begin to imagine how many times I’ve reminded myself to take a deep breath and remember that this is in God’s hands.

That’s what I focus on. I have to be brave and composed on the outside at least so that Steve remains calm. He doesn’t like all the waiting, and unfortunately, there’s a lot of it because there are so many people here who are battling this terrible disease and seeking treatment. And I’m not talking about small numbers either. Hundreds of people in each building we’ve been in today—all walks of life, all nationalities, all ages. Cancer doesn’t discriminate. There are so many people fighting for a cure, for more time.

The only glimmer of hope in all this is the kindness that spreads among people. Every day, you hear someone initiating a conversation in the shuttle or elevator, asking who the patient is, where you are from, what type of cancer they’re fighting, and then ending with a heartfelt wish for the best of luck and God’s blessings. It’s remarkable to see not only the afflicted but also their families offering support and hope to others. And then there are those you see who have no hope in their eyes and all you can do is pray for them.

2 Corinthians 1:4
He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others.

This is where I ask, why God? Why are you testing all these people? I’ve read that faith is like a muscle that grows stronger when strained. If that’s true, then I’ve seen some bodybuilders on these visits with some pretty strong muscles from the strains they’ve endured.

James 1:3-4
3) For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow.
4) So let it grow, for when your endurance is fully developed, you will be perfect and complete, needing nothing

Hebrews 11:6
And it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him.

The life of faith, it is said, comprises at least three essential components. Firstly, it demands a sincere approach to God, a fervent seeking of His presence. Secondly, it necessitates a firm belief in the existence of God. Lastly, it instills confidence in the belief that God will reward those who express such faith.

I have mentioned before that when I first arrived at my new church home, I felt lost and adrift in a sea of turmoil and desperation. However, the one thing that kept me going was my faith in God. I believed that He would guide me to a place where I could worship and connect with fellow Christians. I had faith that He would save me from myself.

Hebrews 11:1
Faith shows the reality of what we hope for, it is the evidence of things we cannot see.

FAITH
My faith guided me to my current position, a place I never anticipated when I first entered those doors. Today, I sit before a group of people every week, sharing my words and thoughts, and most importantly, sharing God’s words with you. It fills my heart with joy to hear your thoughts and share your experiences on the subjects I present to you.

FAITHFUL
Faithful believers remain loyal and trust in God, even during challenging times. They follow his commandments and stay steadfast in their faith. Living a life that reflects your faith involves being faithful in your relationships and consistent in your actions. This can include participating in your community or attending your Bible study group. You can also demonstrate faithfulness at work also by being reliable and performing your job to the best of your abilities.

FAITHFULNESS
God’s faithfulness was his unwavering commitment to keeping promises and his enduring love for his people. He was completely reliable and true to his word, and his faithfulness was the foundation of his trust. His promises are eternal.

For us, faithfulness means trusting and loving God through all of life’s ups and downs, including the difficult times when things get ugly before they get better. It means being loyal, committed, and devoted to our family, friends, and loved ones, no matter what.

Faithfulness is another one of those Fruits of the Spirit—a characteristic that develops through the Holy Spirit’s work in our lives. And as we all know, we are all works in progress. I’m a firm believer that God isn’t finished with me yet. I still have work to do, for myself and for others.

Psalm 36:5
Your unfailing love, O Lord, is as vast as the heavens; your faithfulness reaches beyond the clouds. 

James 1:2-3
2) Dear brother and sisters, when troubles of any kind come your way, consider it an opportunity for great joy.
3) For you know that when your faith is tested, your endurance has a chance to grow.

It’s safe to say that we’ve all faced our fair share of challenges in life, some more daunting than others. However, we’ve all persevered through those difficult times when our faith was tested and our strengths were called upon to confront the battles we faced. I’ve personally experienced times when my faith was tested, such as the loss of loved ones, what I thought were unbearable situations, and even life-changing illnesses. Despite these challenges, I emerged stronger and more confident in my faith and self-assurance. In fact, I’ve even found moments of joy in surviving those trials. When we share our stories and express our faith, perhaps we are even helping others by sharing our experiences. We demonstrate the wisdom we’ve gained and the joy of realizing that with God’s guidance, we’ve grown and learned from our troubles, ready to face another day.

Did you ever imagine finding joy in your struggles? Joy is one of the fruits of the Holy Spirit, a gift that God nurtures within each of us. Sometimes, this growth occurs in quiet, unnoticed, and even less joyful circumstances. Loving those who are difficult to love, trusting in God even in our darkest moments when we don’t know the outcome of our situations, and persevering through our challenges—these are the things that God notices and appreciates. Although it may seem unusual, trials are meant to be moments of joy. These trials serve as the stage and the process through which something positive emerges; trust in the reliability and goodness of God.

When the Titanic sank, chaos, sadness, and grief filled the air. However, amidst the tragedy, there was a glimmer of joy for those fortunate enough to find a life boat. Despite losing loved ones and friends, they were being saved. Even in the darkest of times, God’s presence brought a sense of comfort and hope. You may not be lost in the vast Atlantic Ocean, but He is always by your side, guiding you through your trials and tribulations.

Romans 5:3-5
3) We can rejoice, too, when we run into problems and trials, for we know that they help us develop endurance.
4) And endurance develops strength of character, and character strengthens our confident hope of salvation.
5) And this hope will not lead to disappointment. For we know how dearly God loves us, because he has given us the Holy Spirit to fill our hearts with his love.

Matthew 6:19-20
Don’t store up treasures here on earth, where moths eat them and rust destroys them, and where thieves break in and steal. Store your treasures in heaven, where moths and rust cannot destroy, and thieves do not break in and steal.

We had a second home on the lake, a place where we could escape for a few days to relax and unwind, a gathering spot for the family during the summer holidays, and a dream destination for our retirement. However, life intervened, preventing us from spending as much time there as we desired. Tragically, the inevitable happened—thieves broke in. They shattered windows and damaged doors, stealing everything of value they could easily carry away and sell. Our tranquil sanctuary was violated, and our peace was shattered.

Proverbs 23:5
In the blink of an eye wealth disappears, for it will sprout wings and fly away like an eagle.

In the Book of Job, it tells us that the Lord gives and the Lord takes away. Maybe this was God’s way of telling us that we needed to be closer to home, closer to our family. Had we been living there when Steve’s aneurysm ruptured, he would have died; as we were too secluded, too far from any help that could have saved him.

In the end, what was stolen was just stuff, material possessions that could have been replaced if we had desired to do so; however, we chose not to. In fact, we sold the property. As I reflect on the situation, the losses, damage, and destruction of our retirement dream have made me realize that many things in life that we initially believed we needed were not essential and that we really only wanted them.

Love, joy, peace, faithfulness, patience, gentleness, and self-control are considered treasures from the fruit of the Spirit. These are the things I want in my life. Acts of kindness and compassion hold more value than a trinket on a shelf and don’t require dusting. As the seasons change, I’ll soon be cleaning my closet out and donating items to my favorite non-profit. I’m also thinking that some of my old towels need to be replaced, and those can go to the Humane Society.

Earthly treasures are lost to time and decay; heavenly treasures are permanent and will last forever. Which one of your treasure chests is overflowing?

Matthew 6:21
Wherever your treasure is, there the desires of your heart will also be.

Romans 12:21
Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.

It’s always God’s plan for us to release the hurt, resentment, and bitterness that stem from others’ actions. However, it can be challenging to let it go sometimes. It’s difficult to “turn the other cheek,” overlook one’s own foolishness, and be the bigger person by walking away. Some of us are naturally inclined to fight, while others learn to fight due to circumstances. Some can control their urges, while others can’t. Some can hold their tongue, while others spew words of ugliness and contempt.

It takes a strong person to forgive someone for their actions. After all, we don’t have a right to be unforgiving, since God himself forgave us. When we forgive someone, we’re entrusting the situation to Jesus to handle. So, do it. Even if it’s difficult, let it go. Allow Him to take care of it and find peace of mind knowing that you did everything you could. Ultimately, the good will outweigh the bad. Perhaps the person who is in the wrong will realize their mistake and change their ways. If you’re lucky, you might even receive an apology. If not, you’ll know you did everything you could. I know when I’ve been faced with these situations, it was always difficult to walk away from the conflict. I wanted to win! But life isn’t about always winning; it’s about learning the lessons when you realize you’ve done all you could. It’s time to turn it over to God and let your heart mend.

Now, don’t you feel better? You no longer have to deal with those conflicts. You can breathe easier knowing that you don’t have to carry the burden of someone else’s evilness. I often remind myself that there are people who don’t realize the hurt they inflict with words, actions, or even the lack thereof. There are people who need help and don’t know where to seek it or how to ask for it. Just remember to pray for them, as Jesus said in Luke 23:34, “Father forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.”

Colossians 3:12-15
Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tender-hearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which brings us together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful.

Psalms 143:6
I stretch out my hands to you in prayer. I thirst for you as parched land thirst for rain.

Last week, I discussed the questions that permeate our daily lives. They are everywhere we turn, and I suspect that many of us ask ourselves these questions every day. I certainly do. We are constantly seeking answers, seeking affirmation that we are doing things right, and trying to satisfy our insatiable thirst for knowledge. As a child, I was told that curiosity killed the cat. However, I didn’t believe that because cats had nine lives. After all, inquiring minds want to know and I wanted to know.

During his reign, King Solomon, the author of most of Proverbs, was regarded as the wisest man on earth. People from all over the world sought his counsel, but he acknowledged that true wisdom does not come from knowledge or power, but from God. If we want to receive God’s guidance, our thirst for Him must surpass our thirst for answers. When we approach Him with a humble and open heart, He responds.

Psalm 32:8
The Lord says “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life, I will advise you and watch over you”.

You may have noticed that I mentioned that King Solomon was the wisest man during his reign. This is because in his later years, he made poor decisions that led to divine punishment and the division of the Kingdom of Israel. I believe it’s safe to say that our search for answers and wisdom won’t result in making similar mistakes as King Solomon. However, we must be cautious in our search and who we trust to guide us.

When seeking wisdom and guidance, we should turn to God. One of the best places to do this is in church, with your church family and your pastor. If you need answers or are doubting yourself, find someone you can talk to and ask for their opinion and guidance. God puts people in our lives for a reason, so lean on them if you need help. They may not know the answer, but they might know someone who does. They can point you in the right direction for the help you seek.

Proverbs 3:5-6
5) Trust in the Lord with all your heart, do not depend on your own understanding.
6) Seek his will in all you do, and he will show you which path to take.

Matthew 7:7-8
7) Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. Keep on seeking, and you will find. Keep on knocking, and the door will be opened for you.
8) For everyone who asks, receives. Everyone who seeks, finds. And everyone who knocks, the door will be opened.

Ask, seek, and receive—that seems simple enough, but is it? Do you recall when you were growing up and being told that if you didn’t ask, you wouldn’t know? That advice still holds true today. If you don’t ask, you won’t know. Why, where, when, how, and can I? These were the questions we heard on repeat daily when our kids were little. They are also the same questions we ourselves ask every day. However, we are probably not asking why we can’t have a cookie, where we are going, or my favorite one, “when will we get there, how much longer?” Our questions have evolved over time and are often harder to answer. For instance, “Why me, Lord?” What did I do to deserve this? When will I finally get ahead? Where is all this turmoil in my life leading me?

When we are faced with these questions in life and we don’t know the answers or they don’t come easily; because many things in life are not easy, it is then that we seek. We seek the answers and we put our faith in God to help us find those answers.

Psalm 121:1-2
I look up to the mountains - does my help come from there?
My help comes from the Lord, who made heaven and earth!

When we’re overwhelmed by life’s questions, it’s comforting to remember that we’re not alone in our quest for answers. Our friends, neighbors, brothers, and sisters are all on the same journey, seeking their own truths. Perhaps one of them has the answer to your question, or they’ve already found the solution. You’ll never know unless you ask.

Once you begin seeking answers, they’ll start coming to you. Just remember, the answers may not align with your expectations. Why should you always go right when you want to go left? Because that’s the path God has chosen for you. But where will that road lead? It could lead you to temptations, hope, or even home. Keep knocking on that door, keep asking those questions, and keep seeking God with persistence and continuous effort. Your faith will lead you to what you truly seek.

Matthew 21:22
“You can pray for anything and if you have faith, you will receive it.”

Like a shrinking tumor.