TURN THE OTHER CHEEK

Romans 12:21
Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good.


It’s always God’s plan for us to release the hurt, resentment, and bitterness that stem from others’ actions. However, it can be challenging to let it go sometimes. It’s difficult to “turn the other cheek,” overlook one’s own foolishness, and be the bigger person by walking away. Some of us are naturally inclined to fight, while others learn to fight due to circumstances. Some can control their urges, while others can’t. Some can hold their tongue, while others spew words of ugliness and contempt.

It takes a strong person to forgive someone for their actions. After all, we don’t have a right to be unforgiving, since God himself forgave us. When we forgive someone, we’re entrusting the situation to Jesus to handle. So, do it. Even if it’s difficult, let it go. Allow Him to take care of it and find peace of mind knowing that you did everything you could. Ultimately, the good will outweigh the bad. Perhaps the person who is in the wrong will realize their mistake and change their ways. If you’re lucky, you might even receive an apology. If not, you’ll know you did everything you could. I know when I’ve been faced with these situations, it was always difficult to walk away from the conflict. I wanted to win! But life isn’t about always winning; it’s about learning the lessons when you realize you’ve done all you could. It’s time to turn it over to God and let your heart mend.

Now, don’t you feel better? You no longer have to deal with those conflicts. You can breathe easier knowing that you don’t have to carry the burden of someone else’s evilness. I often remind myself that there are people who don’t realize the hurt they inflict with words, actions, or even the lack thereof. There are people who need help and don’t know where to seek it or how to ask for it. Just remember to pray for them, as Jesus said in Luke 23:34, “Father forgive them, for they don’t know what they are doing.”

Colossians 3:12-15
Since God chose you to be the holy people he loves, you must clothe yourselves with tender-hearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Make allowance for each other’s faults, and forgive anyone who offends you. Remember, the Lord forgave you, so you must forgive others. Above all, clothe yourselves with love, which brings us together in perfect harmony. And let the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. For as members of one body you are called to live in peace. And always be thankful.